ASK CUPID

ASK CUPID Hi I am just getting over a break-up and would love some advice about how to continue with life after what I thought was a meaningful relationship! Brenda Hi there Brenda I would suggest taking things very easy .. don't rush into anything serious but have some fun to boost your ego again. Your heart needs time to mend but your confidence can always do with a boost ;-) Start doing things for YOU, build your strength & independence. If you try and enter a new relationship too soon.. a guy may sense your neediness and run a mile, leaving you hurt again and confused as to why .. OR .. if he loves the idea then maybe he has some issues that make him rush into things too early. The best & longer lasting relationships are built on a foundation of friendship & repect .. that takes time. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS .. we all do! It also happened for a reason and one day you will understand why. If he was the right one for you .. it would have worked .. better is still to come ;-) x