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Safety tips from CoffeedateCUPID
CoffeedateONLINE want to ensure that you are not put at any risks by any carelessness on our part
.. so I have written a few thoughts which I feel are important to consider before using this service.
Please make yourself a coffee and have a read..
All correspondence between CoffeedateONLINE MEMBERs takes place through our safety protection controls, ensuring your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your surname, email address, home address, phone number, exact place of work or any other identifying information in your Mocha profile, Espresso MAIL or Instant coffeeCHATS
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Any such information you gave us is covered by
The Data Protection Act 1998
When corresponding with another Mocha MEMBER you are then in control of your own privacy and security. Never feel obliged to give out too much personal information about yourself and ask yourself why someone would want to know that. If you cannot find a plausible answer then ask the person you are chatting to why they want to know or just tell them you do not want to answer.
You are safe at home and there should be no pressure put on you by other members.
Making friends & dating using CoffeedateONLINE is meant to be a relaxing and enjoyable experience. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable you don’t have to chat to them again. In serious cases .. report them to the Data Conrtoller who will investigate.
We went to considerable expense to provide the Instant coffeeCHAT feature hoping that Mocha MEMBERS will use it instead of other instant messaging systems like MSN. For example ..when you set up your MSN , did you automatically type in your surname?
We can only keep you as safe as you let us!
Most people ONLINE (in my experience) are genuine but sometimes they are not totally honest as they try to come across as a ‘better’: more exciting, or more confident person than they are or about what they are wanting from another person. For example many will create there profile stating that they are looking for romance when all they are after is a one night stand or a casual relationship. You may be after the same, in that case it is totally acceptable. Happiness comes in many forms and you are old enough to be in contol of your own life, that is why there is a 'no attachment fun' tick box.
Being honest with yourself and others is the key.
My advice is trust your instincts & never get emotionally involved with someone till you have a Coffeedate REALITY.
ONLINE dating can be an emotional roller coaster for most as it opens up the possibility of the dream relationship. It is possible so please do not be discouraged as there have been millions of success stories.
Taking a relaxed view to this all is the key .. just enjoy the chatting experience
..if someone special turns up then that's a fantastic bonus!
Follow my simple guidelines and reach for the dream
..just keep your feet on the ground until you take it into REALITY!
I suggest chatting via Espresso MAIL & Instant coffeeCHAT for a few weeks, then when you feel comfortable swap MOBILE phone numbers. Hearing someone’s voice is a good indication to you as to your compatibility.
We all get a gut feeling about other people ..
tune into it & trust it .. it’s reliable.
You may meet and the spark is not there
..that's life, accept it, learn from it .. but keep trying!
.. if nothing else .. you had a COFFEEDATE!!
You still had a time where the chat was good, the expectation feeling gave you something to smile about and you made a new friend.
I wish you all luck and hope you find your time with CoffeedateONLINE a happy experience.
If you do end up finding your dream partner ..
I want to know about it!
Success stories are good for publicity ;-)
Do I need to buy a hat ?
yes .. I want an invite ;-)
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